Why?

Why is it that boys fall in love with girls so easily?  I used to think it was all the girls fault.  As I grew up, I always thought it was the girls that fell in love to fast, got attached too fast and professed their love before the time was right.  However, living through a few different relationships, I have realized its not always the girls' fault.  Most of the time it is actually the dudes who are being a little to over obsessive.  From what I have noticed, the boys fall in love far too fast.  They also become too clingy after the first date.

Some girls need their girl time.  Some girls need their own time.  Sometimes, girls do not like to be touched and groped in public.  If you are not public about your relationship but know between the two of you that you are together, that should be enough.  There is no need to show the whole world what you already know you are.  Be comfortable in your trust with one another.

Blahhhhhh.  This just drives me nuts.

AAANNNNDDD on another note.  If a girl made out with you once...that does not mean she is going to again.  Drunken mistakes happen.  Do not expect it all the time.  College is a time for fun adventures.  Deal with it.  If you see each other in the bar, say hello...maybe even chill but do not act like you need to get with her.  Chances are, she will realize you are not really as cute as you were when she was Level 10 and see you as a mistake she made and then blame it on the a-a-a-a-a-alcohol.